Priorities – Ballito | South Africa

25. August 2025

Retirement | South African Lifestyle | Right for me

Redesigning a space - Ballito | South Africa

Dorothy moved into her home two years ago, shortly after her husband passed away. He had always told her, “Never make life-changing decisions within two years of a major loss” – wise advice, as she now realises. After caring for him for four years following his stroke, she knew she needed a safe, secure, and manageable space. The estate she moved to offered just that.

Dorothy’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

After retiring, I wanted to downsize and create a home that truly suited my lifestyle. Maintaining my old house had become costly and overwhelming, and I no longer needed such a large space.

While the location is wonderfully central – close to bowls, bridge, shops, and medical facilities – the approach to the house is not ideal. But overall, being just minutes from the beach and everything else I need has made this a practical and comforting choice.

This new home was renovated to my taste – a simpler, more modern feel compared to my previous one filled with antiques, Persian carpets, and silverware that constantly needed polishing. I sold much of it through an auctioneer and kept only a few beloved pieces.

I asked the designer for dark kitchen cupboards and a wellsized grocery cupboard, a freestanding bath, and space for some of my favourite items like my bookcase and antique chairs.

The living space flows onto the verandah, where I often dine. If I regret anything, it’s that I didn’t insist on a small seated dining area indoors – but the verandah dining works beautifully in our climate.
This home is very much my retreat: a place to relax after bowls or bridge, to read, to host friends, and to feel comfortable without unnecessary upkeep.

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

Light plays a central role here. The house is bright and sunny, with exterior blinds to filter the strong summer sun and protect against the lower winter sun. These blinds also create an enclosed dining space outdoors, which makes up for not having a formal dining room.
Indoors, I chose block-out curtains with a soft fabric finish – they create a cosy feel in winter and give me privacy when I want it. I did add downlighters, but I regret not having dimmers for a more atmospheric effect.
Power cuts are less of a concern thanks to an inverter and backup system, which makes living “off the grid” when necessary a relief.

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

One of my favourite pieces is my rosewood bridge table, bought years ago from Tony’s Antiques. Bridge is such a big part of my social life, so this table feels like both a memory and a living part of my present.
The antique clock has a lot of sentimental value – it was a personal gift to my husband from a foreign client (and clockmaker) of his, whom he assisted in legal matters while he was travelling in South Africa.

The antique clock has a lot of sentimental value – it was a personal gift to my husband from a foreign client (and clockmaker) of his, whom he assisted in legal matters while he was travelling in South Africa.

Also „part of the furniture“ is my the inherited crockery Enoch Woods English Scenery Blue from my mother that brings back memories of childhood days, growing up on the farm in the eastern cape.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

Absolutely. Art personalises my space and connects me to moments in life. One of my favourite pieces is an Eiffel Tower artwork I bought on the banks of the Seine – the colours blend seamlessly into my interior. I also have a painting of the Sorbonne by my artist friend, Penny Dickson, which reminds me of the Boulevard Saint-Michel and also brings back memories of the music of Peter Sarstedt which my husband and I so enjoyed.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

My favourite spot is the sofa, where I can put my feet up on the ottoman, play Sudoku, or chat with friends after a game of bowls. It’s my place of quiet comfort, yet also where I feel most at home when connecting with others.

Outdoors on my verandah ist my outside go to space, where I enjoy reading the newspaper, doing a crossword puzzle or enjoying a meal with friends or family members.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

The garden, though small, is a sanctuary. My daughter insisted that I must have a patch of grass, and she was right. I need that connection to nature – stepping out barefoot, watching the orchids bloom on the palm trees, even dealing with the “unwanted visitors” like caterpillars, monkeys, moles, and the occasional snake.
The garden is tended to weekly by the estate gardener, but I still enjoy the therapeutic act of pottering about. It frustrates me when nature gets the better of me – termites even caused the deck to collapse – but I cannot imagine living without a garden’s beauty.

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

I would replace the sliding doors with folding stack doors to create a seamless flow between the living room and the verandah. It would feel more spacious and be better for entertaining. Rebuilding the deck that collapsed is also high on my wish list.
That said, I have other priorities too – like travelling overseas to see family – so for now I’ve accepted the compromises.

I dislike having to pass the green garbage bins, I would certainly create a visual structure that takes the garbage bins „out of sight“ – that would be a bonus for the aesthetics of the entire estate if consequently executed. I would also build a a garage.

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

The biggest lesson is the importance of working with reliable, professional builders and craftsmen. It may cost more, but the quality of workmanship and peace of mind are worth it. I also learned how crucial it is to stay engaged in the process, rather than handing over too much control.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

The bravest step was entrusting someone else with rethinking and redesigning my space. Handing over decisions about how to transform my living environment was not easy – but it took courage and ultimately gave me a fresh start.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

Take your time. Don’t make rushed decisions under pressure – I regret letting go of certain personal pieces in the hasty move.
Stay involved. Even if you have a designer, ensure you’re walked through the details so nothing important is overlooked.
Trust your own priorities. Don’t be swayed too much by others’ opinions – you are the one who has to live in the home.

The Story Behind the Story

Every homestory holds layers, and with Dorothy, the deeper you look, the more beauty you uncover. Leafing through her photo albums feels less like browsing snapshots and more like tracing a lifelong thread of creativity, grace, and dedication.

As a young woman, Dorothy’s poise was unmistakable. She was crowned Miss Jacaranda in Kirkwood and went on to model for the Wool Board at a time when South Africa’s wool was sought after worldwide. Beyond being a practical way to supplement her income, the role offered her something far greater: a refined eye for fashion, quality, and elegance—skills that would later define her entrepreneurial journey.

That journey blossomed in the floral and bridal industry, where Dorothy poured her creativity into designing gowns and crafting floral arrangements. Each wedding she touched carried her signature blend of artistry and care, the product of long hours and unwavering dedication. Her work didn’t just decorate occasions—it elevated them, creating memories as timeless as the flowers she arranged and the gowns she designed.

Today, Dorothy’s life in Ballito reflects the same sense of beauty and joy. She savours afternoons of bridge and bowls, quiet hours of reading and gardening, walks on the beach or boardwalk, her active church participation, and above all, time shared with family and friends.

Hers is a story that proves creativity isn’t confined to a single chapter—it flows, evolves, and enriches every stage of life.

On a very personal note…

These photos capture her so perfectly—always creating a warm, welcoming space with delicious food and thoughtful touches. Hosting comes so naturally to her, and she takes such joy in making everyone feel at home. I’ve had the honour, many times, of being welcomed into her homes, and each visit has been filled with laughter, comfort, and the kind of hospitality that makes you feel truly cared for.

Transition to a new development – Oxshott | UK

25. Juli 2025

Surrey | Big city proximity | Country joy

Lifechanging moves - from Putney to Oxshott | United Kingdom

This semi-detached house in Oxshott, Surrey, presents an immediate impression of a thoughtfully designed modern development. It appeals to a wide range of homeowners, offering the advantages of contemporary living in a prime, sought-after location. Surrounded by the lush, green countryside, it strikes a rare balance—immersed in nature yet still within a manageable commuting distance to central London.

The move from a central London apartment in Putney to the greener, quieter outer suburbs of Surrey a year ago was a deliberate choice to enhance daily quality of life. In contrast to the confined space of urban living—with no outdoor escape and the constant hum of a nearby busy road—the new home provides space to breathe, both indoors and out. The shift represents more than just a change of address; it reflects a lifestyle transformation, prioritizing calm, comfort, and connection to nature.

Russell’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

What appeals to me most is the peacefulness—thanks in large part to the home’s location on a quiet cul-de-sac, free from any through traffic. Despite being spread over three levels, what struck me from the moment I first stepped inside was the seamless flow of the layout, the thoughtful floor plan, and the high standard of the fittings and finishes throughout.

The main living room, located on the entrance level, serves a dual purpose. It acts as a spacious central hub and is a well-used, welcoming space. Flooded with natural light, it’s especially inviting in the summer months when the large, generously proportioned doors are thrown open, letting in fresh air and connecting the indoors with the outdoors. The view over the garden below and the landscape beyond only adds to the charm and appeal of this room.

The positioning of this room—which combines both lounge and home office functions—on a separate level from the kitchen allows for true relaxation, free from the visual or auditory distractions that might come from daily kitchen activity.

A dedicated desk sits in this space, serving as the base for my home office when I’m working remotely from the London office. It’s a clean, uncluttered area that fosters focus and productivity during working hours.

Come evening, or on a pleasant day, the terrace just outside becomes an inviting retreat. The outdoor lounge furniture offers the perfect spot to sit back and unwind, with the peaceful garden setting providing a calming backdrop.

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

After many years of living in a small ground-floor apartment shaded by large trees, I’ve come to truly appreciate the value of abundant natural light. This house, built across three levels and set a good distance from neighbouring buildings at the rear, benefits enormously from its elevated position and open surroundings—flooding the interior with light throughout the day.

To balance light with comfort, the main bedroom and lounge are fitted with blackout-lined curtains, ensuring restful sleep and cozy evenings. In the two additional bedrooms, a thoughtful combination of louvred and Roman blinds allows for both privacy and light control, depending on the time of day and season.

When it comes to energy use, the house is pretty smart. All the lights are fitted with energy-saving bulbs, and there are motion sensors in places like the bathrooms to make sure lights aren’t left on unnecessarily. The property has an EPC rating of B, which is a solid score for energy efficiency.

In case you’re not familiar, the Energy Performance Certificate (EPC) in England rates how energy-efficient a home is—A being the best, G the least—and it’s valid for 10 years. So that’s one less thing to think about for the foreseeable future. It’s definitely one of the perks of buying a newer home: no upgrades needed, and you can rest easy knowing the place is already built with efficiency in mind.

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

I’ve really taken a liking to the ground-floor lounge sofa that came with the house. Its classic shape and neutral fabric, finished with dark piping, gives it a timeless look—and it’s super comfortable too.

Other than that, I don’t have any furniture with sentimental value. I’m pretty practical and functional when it comes to furnishing—simple and comfortable suits me best. That said, the cushions might give something away: I’m definitely fond of dogs. One of my hobbies is dogsitting for three lovely pups belonging to good friends—Truffles (a Cavapoo), and Lilly Rose and Charlie (King Charles Spaniels). They’ve been a fun part of my life over the years.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

I’m definitely not an art collector, but there is one piece I’ve grown attached to—a painting gifted to me by a friend who’s an artist. It fits perfectly in the guest bathroom on the ground floor and adds a nice personal touch to the space. I also have a black-and-white photo of London, which feels quite fitting since I’ve lived there most of my life. I haven’t quite found the perfect spot for it yet though—that kind of thing sometimes takes a bit of time.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

My favourite spot in the house is also where I spend most of my time—my home office in the ground-floor lounge. It’s got a large window with a lovely view, which makes working from home that much nicer. And when I have visitors in town, like recently during Wimbledon week, the ground floor is perfect for sharing a meal together. Weather permitting, we open up the stack doors to the terrace and enjoy the sunny space—it really feels like an extension of the room.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

This one’s easy—I’ve never been much of an aspiring gardener, nor have I ever felt like a garden was something I couldn’t live without. But now, with the folding doors downstairs that open fully onto the terrace, it feels really freeing. Plus, the garden is tucked away so that not many neighbours can see in, which means plenty of privacy. It’s a cozy, secluded spot where I can relax with friends and guests and really make the most of good weather.

A few things about the garden made a great impression on me when I first viewed the house:

At the front, there’s a well-kept, private entrance area where the rubbish and recycling bins are conveniently placed near the front door—but cleverly screened off with a nice wooden frame, so they’re out of sight and still look good.

There are also well-sized stairs leading down the side of the house to the garden, making it easy to access for maintenance, planting, and for comfortably removing garden cuttings.

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

At the top of my list would be installing an audio system in three main rooms, all connected—because I spend a lot of time listening to music and that would really enhance the experience.
Next up would be replacing some of the remaining IKEA furniture with bespoke pieces to personalise and upgrade the interior, adding more character and a better overall feel.
Finally, I’d like to develop a coherent colour scheme throughout the house, with special focus on the downstairs seating area and the three bedrooms. Adding the right accessories to personalise and brighten these spaces would really pull everything together.

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

For me, the biggest lesson in moving was really understanding what to focus on when buying a house.

Here are the things that mattered most to me:

Natural light — after living in a pretty dark apartment for too long, this became a top priority.
Private entrance — I wanted to avoid the hassles that come with communal entrances, which can often be frustrating.
Parking — having a driveway and garage was essential. Parking is a big challenge in the UK, especially in London where many terraced houses only have on-street parking and no guaranteed space.
Accessibility — being close to London, the train station, and airports was important for easy commuting and travel.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

This question doesn’t really apply to me since, so far, there’s been little need for major changes—the house was new and already partially fitted out. However, I will say that deciding to leave the city and invest in a larger property, probably bigger than I actually need, was a bold move.

What motivated me was the potential for capital growth, thanks to the home’s desirable location in the property market. That gave me the confidence to take the leap and make the change.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

If I were to offer three pieces of advice to anyone thinking about developing or buying a home, they would be:

Take your time to research the market — really get to know what’s out there and what’s a fair deal.

Be clear on your priorities — know what matters most to you when choosing a home, so you don’t get distracted by things that aren’t important.

Pay attention to the details — like whether the property is freehold or leasehold, and don’t overestimate your DIY skills when planning any work. It’s better to be realistic from the start.

Russell works in the financial sector and has been a dedicated Manchester United fan since he was just seven years old. Needless to say, he’s visited Old Trafford more times than he can count.

Music has always been a big part of his life—especially the band Deacon Blue, who have been a constant soundtrack since his youth. Over the years in London and across the UK, there aren’t many of their concerts he’s missed.

When it comes to staying active, Russell enjoys sports like tennis at the local club and Padel, which keep him fit and energized on the weekends.

Transforming a hidden gem – St. Francis Bay | South Africa

25. Juni 2025

St. Francis Bay | Coastal Living | Home with a view

Back to the roots - Eastern Cape | South Africa

After 30 years of marriage and 13 moves spanning the UK, and various regions of South Africa – Johannesburg, Ballito, and the KwaZulu-Natal Midlands, Ilse and Hilton felt the call to return to their roots in the Eastern Cape. A significant drawing factor was the down-to-earth coastal lifestyle they had grown to cherish from numerous annual family holidays in St Francis Bay. It aligned perfectly with the desire to declutter, simplify, and live more intentionally. The town’s proximity to their daughters in Cape Town was an added blessing.

When they unexpectedly received a cash offer on their Midlands home, they saw it as a clear sign to begin searching for a new home in St Francis.

Ilse and Hilton’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

Our dream was simple: a home with a view. Hilton, ever the visionary, had his eye on a ‚fixer-upper‘ — a neglected property with stunning ocean views over St Francis Bay. While it was undeniably a hidden gem at first glance, we saw its potential and knew it could become something special.

Our home has become a peaceful retreat — a quiet, comfortable space that offers room to relax, work, host family and friends, and enjoy the lifestyle we love. It’s both a sanctuary and a gathering place, perfectly positioned for everything we need.

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

Natural light is incredibly important to us. We chose a north-facing home to maximize warmth and light during the wet and windy months. We also added an enclosed patio so we could enjoy the outdoors in any weather. Living off the grid is part of our ethos, so we installed a solar system to power the home sustainably.

Photo showing the glorious view from the newly enclosed patio

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

One of our most loved pieces is our tall table with high chairs — a central spot for family meals, braais, and meaningful conversations with friends, all while soaking up the incredible view.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

The artwork in our home holds deep sentimental value. Each piece tells a story — often of our favourite places like the bush or the beach — and many were painted by a dear friend, making them even more meaningful.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

In winter, we gravitate toward a small lounge area by the indoor fireplace — still a work in progress decor-wise, but already a beloved corner. For most of the year, the sun-drenched enclosed patio is our go-to space, perfect for relaxing and enjoying the view.

Photo of the main living space which is the central hub for the family.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

Our garden began as a wild, overgrown plot. After removing several truckloads of debris, we were left with a blank canvas. We’ve since landscaped it with indigenous plants that attract birds and blend beautifully with the surroundings. It’s a calming space we now love spending time in.

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

If budget weren’t a concern, we’d love to add more built-in storage and update all the bathrooms. These remain on the “someday” list, but for now, we appreciate the charm and character of our evolving home.

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

Our biggest lesson? Always allow more time than you think you’ll need — and keep a buffer for unexpected expenses. Renovating an old home is rewarding, but never without surprises.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

One of the most dramatic changes came unexpectedly: our front entrance collapsed and had to be demolished. Thankfully, no one was injured, and we’re now rebuilding a safer, more welcoming entrance.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

From our experience, we offer three key tips:

Choose your contractor wisely — they’re crucial to the success of your renovation.

Take it one day at a time — enjoy the transformation and breathe through the curveballs.

Stay within your budget — invest in the best quality you can afford.

Lifestyle in St Francis Bay

St Francis Bay is a vibrant, active community with endless opportunities to enjoy the outdoors. Hilton loves cycling and surfski paddling, while I enjoy running, Pilates, and golf. We both treasure long beach walks — especially when followed by a great coffee or a sundowner boat cruise through the canals, or being at Sunset Rock with friends and family.

We’re both actively involved in local church and community initiatives, which help us feel rooted and invested in the people and place we now call home.

About us

Hilton (55) is the owner and CEO of BSP Executive Search. I’m Ilse, also 55, an ACMA and Director of Ukuthula Sandplay. We have two wonderful daughters: Rachel (24) and Jessica (22).

Turning the ugly duckling into a swan – Kent | UK

25. Mai 2025

Tunbridge Wells | English countryside | Big plans

Mastering an ambitious project - in Kent | United Kingdom

Nestled in the picturesque town of Tunbridge Wells, Kent, Loren and Ken’s home purchase was the result of a six-month search for the perfect place. They fell in love with the location for its stunning views, unique character, and the endless potential to create something truly special.

The property spans approximately 22 acres, and while the initial plan aimed for a six-month conversion, the journey evolved into an eight-year labor of love, full of challenges but deeply rewarding. Today, Loren and Ken’s home stands as a beautiful retreat surrounded by pristine countryside, yet conveniently close to two major towns with excellent commuter links.

Loren and Ken’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

Our home offers a sanctuary for family and friends – a place to unwind, connect with nature, and enjoy the peaceful surroundings. It’s a space where guests are always welcome to relax, breathe, and simply enjoy the moment.

For communication, it serves as a hub for meaningful conversations, shared experiences, and connection – whether over a meal, around a fire, or during a long walk through the grounds.

It’s also a space to relax, thoughtfully designed to promote a sense of calm, with light-filled rooms, open vistas, and plenty of spots to unwind, both indoors and out.

Yet, it’s also a place of work. Our home doubles as our office, where we run two businesses, blending work and life in a setting that inspires focus and creativity.

Our two recreational spaces – the games room and gym – turned out to be invaluable in the home (especially during Covid).

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

Light was our top priority when we first briefed the architect. I believe it’s one of the most critical aspects of any home. Although our house benefits from a favorable orientation, it originally felt quite dark due to the small, poorly placed windows.

During the refurbishment, we made a conscious decision to significantly increase the number and size of windows and doors, opting for tall, expansive panes that let in as much natural light as possible. This approach has transformed the space, allowing sunlight to flood the interior throughout the year – from the low, warm light of winter to the bright, energizing light of summer.

It’s a change that has made a huge difference, creating a bright, airy atmosphere that feels welcoming and alive, no matter the season.

Photo showing the glorious view and the play of light through the trees beyond the driveway

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

I don’t really have a single favorite piece of furniture, but certain pieces stand out. Our large oak dining table is particularly special – it can seat around 12 people, and we’ve shared countless memorable moments around it with family and friends. It’s a piece that’s seen a lot of laughter, celebration, and good food.

I also really like the lounge suite I bought, which is a bit more stylish than my usual taste, though it turned out to be not quite as comfortable as we’d hoped.

Our kitchen table is another favorite, full of fond memories – Ken remembers that it was purchased 28 years ago in their first home in Joburg, and it served extremely well as the designated workspace for his MBA while Loren had to resort to utilising the desk in the second bedroom.

It is a place where we gather for meals, conversations, and the everyday moments that make a house feel like a home.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

Yes, we do enjoy art, and it plays a meaningful role in our home. Much of our collection is from Africa, reflecting a theme that runs throughout the house.

We also have several pieces by an artist from Knysna, a place that holds a special place in our hearts as we holiday there every year. These works capture the beautiful scenery of the area and serve as constant reminders of our roots and the happy memories we’ve created in that corner of the world.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

My favourite room is the kitchen, a treasured go to spot on the property is a wooden bench just outside our kitchen. It’s bathed in sunlight from morning till evening, with a beautiful view over the front garden.

From this spot, you can often catch a glimpse of deer grazing in the fields, and it’s nicely sheltered from the wind, making it a perfect place to sit and ponder. It’s a popular spot in our family, so I sometimes have to compete for a seat, but it’s definitely my go-to place.

The joy of unforeseen spaces: Sometimes opportunities pop up when building is taking place and in this case the retaining wall behind the house leading up to the swimming pool presented auch an opportunity to utilise the passage between the house and the retaining wall to create a „cellar“ which is simply vented on the two walls, with no form of refrigeration as such and yet providing a space that has a pretty constant temperature of 12 degrees throughout the year.

Photo of the wine cellar that was created.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

Our garden is very special to me. I spend most of my weekends and spare time there, and it has been a true labor of love. When we moved in, the outdoor space was mostly concrete and tar, with little thought given to landscaping.

We’ve transformed it over the years, creating a series of special little spaces, including wisteria-covered arches and a comfortable terrace around the pool. We’ve also put a lot of effort into building rockeries and creating rockery gardens, adding texture and interest to the landscape.

That said, we do face some challenges. The large number of deer that wander freely through the property means we have to be careful about what we plant, as many things simply won’t survive.

The deer and pheasants feel quite at home in our garden…

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

I’m not sure I’d change much about our home. We’ve put a lot of hard work into creating a space that truly works for us, and we feel very privileged to live here. The environment is what matters most to us — it makes us happy and gives us a deep sense of contentment and relaxation when we’re at home.

We also love the house itself; it has plenty of space to accommodate many guests, and we’ve shared some wonderful, joyful times here.

That said, if I had to pick one thing, it would probably be our driveway. It’s not ideal — quite bumpy — and could definitely use some work. But with the big project to convert the barns (shown below to the right when the property was purchased) over the next year, that will have to wait for now. Eventually, the plan is to sell this house, so the driveway might be something we tackle before then.

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

It was a big project, and looking back, I think we were a bit naive about the time and budget needed to transform the “ugly duckling” into a swan. But Ken and I were never ones to shy away from a challenge, so we threw ourselves wholeheartedly into reshaping the landscape and making our vision a reality.

Our biggest lesson was the importance of clearing and structuring our priorities—and then systematically turning them into achievable goals.

Priority number one was securing a nice view.
Priority number two was obtainingplanning permission to extend and modify the house.
Priority number three was upgrading the house itself.
And priority number four was gaining planning permission to convert the large barns on the property into a home.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

I think the bravest thing we did was simply buying the house. It was a real mess when we took it on. The previous owner hadn’t looked after the home—or the environment around it—so we invested a lot of time, effort, and money cleaning up the exterior.

The location and views were beautiful, so we saw the potential immediately. Since then, we’ve basically redone the entire house. It was a huge project with costs that we probably underestimated at first, which is why we took our time and developed it gradually over several years.

Ken and I both enjoy DIY and renovating, so this process has been really rewarding. In fact, much of the inspiration for my business came from working on our home and learning through that experience. Along the way, we met some wonderful people who have continued to work with us since the business launched, making it a really special journey for all of us.

This video clip ist certainly testimony to the foresight and vision that has guided Loren and Ken along their home development journey so far.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

If I were to give three pieces of advice for anyone developing their home, it would be:

Have a clear vision for what you want to achieve.

Start taking action to bring that vision to life—don’t wait for the perfect moment.

Keep going, even when it gets challenging. Persistence pays off, and in the end, you’ll be proud of creating a home that’s exactly what you imagined.

A Little Trip Down Memory Lane
It’s always inspiring to look back at old photos—especially the ones capturing the beginning of Loren and Ken’s property development journey. With a clear vision, they took bold steps forward and never looked back. Their story is a beautiful reminder of what dedication and perseverance can achieve.

Renovation overview

At the outset (October 2007) Loren and Ken removed 9 buildings including an abbattoir, greenhouse and outbuildings. They moved 600 tonnes of hardcore within the the landscape process. On the left side of the property, we excavated 1.5 metres of earth and removed the existing garages, replacing them with a spacious games room on the same level as the main house. On the right, we removed both the internal garage and a set of large corrugated iron garages, replacing them with a new three-bay garage.

We also eliminated the internal garage and service pit on the right side of the house to create a new kitchen. Additional upgrades include a new retaining wall, landscaped gardens, and a turning circle.

The front entrance was redesigned with a centrally positioned front door and an oak balcony above. All windows were replaced, and six sets of double doors were installed to enhance light and access.

The house now features six bedrooms and seven bathrooms, along with a separate annex comprising a lounge, kitchen, and bedroom — currently listed on Airbnb.

I eagerly anticipate visiting their home again this year in July and hearing more about their plans to transform the barns in the coming years. It is a joy to see how their vision continues to evolve.

Farm boy meets city girl – Calgary | Canada

25. April 2025

Keer Homestead | Canadian Lifestyle | Sizing up

Farm boy & city girl - near Calgary | Canada

Nestled on 80 acres of open prairie land in Wheatland County, just 20 minutes east of Calgary, our home offers a front-row view of history—the original family homestead, established in 1911 by Doug’s great-grandparents, is still visible from our windows. It’s a daily reminder of the deep roots that anchor us here.

Lindsay’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

We built our home in 2003, when we were just 24 years old and expecting our third child. As our family continued to grow—welcoming our fourth child in 2006—we soon found ourselves needing more space. In 2013, we renovated and expanded to better fit our busy, bustling life.

Our home is set at the end of a long, tree-lined driveway and reflects our take on a traditional rancher-style bungalow. It features five bedrooms, four bathrooms, a spacious home office, and an open-concept main living area that brings everyone together. The large walkout basement serves as a dedicated space for entertainment and includes a full home gym.

We also enjoy the practicality of an oversized three-car garage, and one of our favorite places to gather is the expansive backyard—perfect for hosting friends and family, especially in the winter months when our homemade skating rink comes to life.

Our home was designed with hosting in mind—warm, functional, and welcoming. Whether it’s a casual get-together or a large family gathering, the layout flows easily and comfortably accommodates a crowd.

The home office is a vital part of our day-to-day life. It serves as the central hub for our large farming operation and also doubles as my workspace for my part-time nursing job, which I’m fortunate to do from home. It’s a well-used, purpose-driven space that helps us balance the demands of both work and family life.

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

The back of our home faces southwest, flooding the living spaces with beautiful natural light throughout the day. Both the front and back porches are covered, offering filtered sunlight that keeps things bright without overheating the home during the summer months.

One of our favorite features is the walkout basement, which includes full-sized windows and doors that let in an abundance of natural light—so much so that we confidently painted the space black, and it still feels airy and open. All of our windows are energy-efficient, low-E glass, helping to keep the home comfortable and sustainable year-round.

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

One of our favorite pieces in the house is our kitchen table—a rustic farmhouse-style table that expands to comfortably seat up to 12. It’s more than just furniture; it’s where we’ve shared countless meals, conversations, and laughter with family and friends over the years. The comfortable end chairs make it an easy place to linger long after the plates are cleared.

Another beloved feature is the window seat, original to the house and full of charm. It’s the perfect sunny spot to curl up with a book—or, as it turns out, for our old pup Lily to spend her afternoons. She’s claimed it as her own, happily soaking up the sun for hours on end.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

Yes, art definitely plays a role in our home interior. While we like to switch up wall decor every few years to keep things fresh and reflect our current tastes, there are a few meaningful pieces that will always remain staples. In our basement, we have drawings by our oldest daughter—portraits of her three younger siblings—that add a deeply personal and sentimental touch. I also have a framed street sign from the neighborhood where I grew up, displayed proudly above the bar in the basement. In the office, there’s a gallery wall featuring artwork and mementos we’ve collected from our travels, each piece carrying a memory and story. Art in our home isn’t just for decoration—it reflects our experiences, our family, and what matters most to us.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

Our favorite spots in the house definitely change with the seasons. One year-round favorite of mine is the chair at the head of the kitchen table—so many memorable conversations and great bottles of wine have been shared in that seat. It’s a spot that feels like home all on its own.

The home gym is another space we all make good use of. Whether it’s to clear your head, burn off some stress, or just have a little alone time, it’s become an important part of our daily rhythm.

When it’s time to unwind, nothing beats cozying up in bed with a good book—it’s my personal retreat. And in the warmer months, the outdoor fireplace, kitchen, and hot tub become our go-to. Whether we’re entertaining or just soaking in a quiet evening, the views are always stunning. Watching the sunsets—and even the northern lights—from our backyard never gets old.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

Our yard is one of our proudest accomplishments. When we first built the house, it sat in the middle of a bare field. Over the years, we’ve transformed it into a lush, welcoming space—planting every single one of the more than 200 trees ourselves. Now fully grown, they frame our home beautifully and offer shade, shelter, and a true sense of place.

While we used to grow large vegetable gardens, we eventually gave up the battle against weeds and curious wildlife. These days, we stick to planting flowers close to the house, adding vibrant pops of color where we can enjoy them most.

A favorite feature is the large pond in the back, where we love to sit and listen to the birds and wildlife all through spring, summer, and fall. The backyard fireplace and kitchen were handcrafted by Doug and the kids—a true labor of love. We’ve spent countless hours out there together, surrounded by music, laughter, and the sound of guitars being strummed under the prairie sky.

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

This one’s easy! If we were to build again, we’d absolutely go with higher ceilings. Most of the house has standard 8-foot ceilings, with a raised 9-foot ceiling in the living room—but with so much space and a tall roofline, we wish we had gone even higher to really open up the living areas and add more visual drama.

Another thing we’d change? No carpet—anywhere. We still have carpet in three of the bedrooms, but hardwood is on the horizon. With dogs in the house, hardwood just feels so much cleaner and easier to maintain. It’s a change we’re definitely looking forward to making.

And if Doug had his way, we’d also be adding a room dedicated to a golf simulator. It’s still on the wishlist… and may just happen in the near future!

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

Every project seems to take twice as long and cost twice as much as originally estimated. 😩 It’s one of those truths you only fully understand once you’re in the thick of it! But in the end, the results are always worth the extra time, effort, and expense.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

When we decided to renovate, we went all in—we gutted the entire main floor while raising four little kids. During the chaos, we all lived in the basement with just one bathroom and no kitchen. It was tight, messy, and definitely a test of patience… but somehow, we made it work.

Looking back, it’s one of those wild family memories that we actually laugh about now. It brought us even closer and made us appreciate the finished space that much more.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

If we’ve learned anything through building and renovating, it’s this: stick with what you love and what truly works for your life—don’t get swayed by trends or designer opinions.
One of our best decisions? Installing two dishwashers. They’re inexpensive compared to other appliances, and we’ve never once regretted it.
Also, don’t underestimate the importance of day-to-day spaces. Make the “unseen” areas—like laundry rooms and mudrooms—bigger than you think you need. You won’t regret the extra room. In fact, our laundry/mudroom has become one of my favorite spaces in the house. It’s functional, organized, and just makes life easier.

We’re a farm boy, born and raised, who met and fell in love with a city girl who had lived all over the world. Our paths crossed at university, where we dreamed of traveling the globe—me as a nurse, and him as a golf professional. But life had other plans, and we quickly settled into family life at 21 with the arrival of our baby girl.

Fast forward 27 years and four kids later, and we’ve spent the last 21 years living on Doug’s family farm. Our children are grown now—two have settled into careers close to home, while two are off at university. We cherish the quiet of our homestead, but we’re also passionate about travel, always eager to explore new places.

Living and working in agriculture has given us so much: the flexibility to raise our family on our terms, the opportunity to build a life that feels truly our own, and the space to grow and evolve with each passing year. We’re deeply grateful for all it’s provided.

My memories and Keer family Traditions

A family project that began just before Christmas in 1987 — during my Rotary exchange year in Calgary in Lindsay`s family home — was the baking and building of a gingerbread house from scratch. None of us could have imagined then just how special that simple activity would become. Over the years, it has grown into a cherished tradition in the Keer family’s Christmas celebrations. I’m truly touched to see the love, creativity, and joy that have gone into their incredible gingerbread masterpieces since those humble beginnings. What a beautiful tradition they continue to uphold together.

There is no doubt about which is my favourite piece – the Brock family home in Kerfoot Crescent (bottom right) that was generously opened to me, a stranger from Africa to them back then, in 1987 and which holds a very special place in my heart.

My favourite things – Plett | South Africa

25. März 2025

Retirement | South African Lifestyle | Scaling Down

My favourite things - Plettenberg Bay | South Africa

This is the entrance to my semi-detached cottage from the garden side in a retirement village in Plettenberg Bay. The front door leads directly into the open plan lounge, kitchen and dining room area.

Sheila’s Homestory…

Q: Describe your home in terms of the following functions – as a retreat / place for communication / space to relax / work (home office)

My antique dining room table is frequently used for dining with friends. I find that a round table is ideal, as it creates a cosy atmosphere and encourages engaging conversation. I have a small study that serves as my administrative hub, where I have positioned a cherished gallery of family photos on the walls, making the space not only functional but deeply personal. A second small bedroom proves invaluable when my family comes to visit, providing a welcoming and comfortablel space for their stay.

My own bedroom is a haven of comfort, with ample built-in cupboards and calming, soothing colours. It offers a perfect sanctuary especially in the winter, when I can relax and curl up with a good book, under the comforting warmth of an electric blanket. In the summer, the mosquito net proves to be a welcome addition, ensuring a peaceful night’s rest.

Q: What role does light / lighting play in your home – Natural light / Indirect light / Energy considerations / role of light protection?

Being fortunate enough to live in a wonderful climate my cottage is filled with natural light. From the undercover patio sunlight spills onto the dining area as it does too through the large lounge windows. The drying yard off the kitchen is also filled with sunlight, which filters into the kitchen.

Q: Your favourite piece of furniture and why…?

I am truly fortunate to be surrounded by, to quote Julie Andrews, „a few of my favourite things.“ Among them is the dining table and sideboard I have previously mentioned. One item that holds special significance is an old cupboard, originally purchased around 60 years ago as a changing table for babies. Over the years, it has undergone many transformations, from being painted in various colours to being covered in wallpaper during the era when orange and brown were in vogue. It currently has a white coating with fabric-lined doors, and the top is stained dark. It now serves as a practical and well-used server in the dining room.

In addition, several old chairs have been reupholstered multiple times, often with the help of my talented daughter. Among my favourites is a jug and basin that were rescued from my grandfather’s farm, where they were once used to store poultry feed. I also treasure an old clock purchased in Grahamstown, which originates from Germany. Its ticking and loud chimes are reminiscent of Big Ben, adding a sense of timelessness to my home.

Two beautiful old jugs from my late mother are perfect for displaying spring flowers, adding a personal touch to the decor. I also have a collection of family photos, some of which are over 100 years old, each one a precious reminder of the generations that came before me. These items, each with its own story, bring a sense of warmth and nostalgia to my home.

Q: Does art play a role in your home interior, if so how and why?

Art in my home consists of two original paintings by Cole bought from my nextdoor neighbour in Grahamstown. A still life in pencil as well as a painting of a room at the Grahamstown observatory museum both done by my daughter in school days, are pieces of art that are personal and mean a lot to me. On a recent visit my daughter was inspired by a visit to a local art gallery and did a collage of me seated on the balcony of the Beacon Island hotel.

Many years ago while on holiday with my son on the Isle of Whight I did two brass rubbings, these also have a special place in my home and bring back happy memories.

Q: The spot(s)/corner(s) that you treasure the most – your current go to space at the moment?

My favorite spot is the cane couch on the patio, where I can relax virtually all year round, thanks to our wonderful climate. The wrought iron table and chairs also positioned on the patio provide the perfect setting for many occasions of alfresco dining.

Q: What does your garden/terrace/balcony mean to you?

The garden has proven to be an incredibly therapeutic space for me. In the wake of the untimely loss of my eldest son, I found solace in spending countless hours there, planting and nurturing life as a way to heal. The trees and certain plants, many of which were gifted to me on meaningful occasions, carry profound significance. Sharing the bounty of the garden with friends brings me a sense of joy and fulfillment. I am especially grateful for Rudi, my passionate gardening assistant, who lends a hand with the more labor-intensive tasks. The garden has also become a sanctuary for local birdlife, and I take great pleasure in watching them delight in their daily dips in the birdbath.

Q: If you could change one thing about your home, with no budget constraints, what would it be and why?

I recently moved to a retirement village, and since it’s a liferight property, I’m unable to make significant alterations—a frustrating reality for someone who has always loved home improvements. My advice to anyone considering this move: think it through carefully and read the fine print. That said, there are benefits. At 83, I’ve come to accept my limitations and appreciate the conveniences around me. One of the highlights of my week is the arrival of my wonderful cleaning lady, Thursa, whose bright smile and efficiency make my home feel refreshed.

For those downsizing, my best advice is to declutter—then declutter again. Cherish the possessions that bring you joy, but don’t let them own you.

Q: What has been the biggest learning/lesson from developing/establishing your home?

On reflection, I have done much experimenting and I would heartily recommend calling in a professional design consultant as this can save an enormous amount of time and money.

Q: What was the bravest thing you did to or changed in your home?

Over the years I have always bought the worst property in the best location and then proceeded to alter as finances permitted.

Q: If you were asked to give someone 3 pieces of advice or 3 tips from your own personal experience for developing their home – what would those be?

Be open to suggestions, you don’t have to always follow.
Don’t be afraid to move furniture, pictures, plants etcetera until you are happy.
Don’t be too affected by what is “In” at the moment. Be comfortable with things that have personal value. You can also NEVER have too many built-in-cupboards, even in the garage.

Sheila’s Homemaking History

This is a brief reflection on a nearly 60-year journey through home improvements, a path marked by change, growth, and countless transitions.

As a young wife and mother, determined to enter the property market, I purchased a plot in the newly developed Somerset Heights estate in Grahamstown. With little knowledge but plenty of determination, I built a modest three-bedroom house. Over the years, as finances allowed, I transformed it—adding an extra bedroom, an additional bathroom, a TV lounge, a scullery, a double garage, and even a swimming pool. When my husband and I parted ways, I moved with my three school-age children to a smaller home. Despite running a florist business with my sister, I still found time for renovations, often instructing the builder with my signature phrase: „Kap uit daardie muur!“ (Afrikaans for „Chop out that wall!“).

When I remarried and needed more space, we embarked on yet another major renovation. Then came a move to East London, leaving our children in boarding school and university. It was a difficult transition—long-distance communication was a challenge in a world without cell phones or WhatsApp. After five years and more home improvements, we returned to Grahamstown for two years, then to Port Elizabeth for another two, where only minor updates were needed.

What we thought would be our final move took us back to Grahamstown, where we purchased a block of flats and converted the top floor into a penthouse. At the same time, we bought a „lock-up-and-go“ property in Plettenberg Bay. I also ventured into real estate with a friend, finding joy in working with property and forming lasting friendships with clients. This rewarding chapter continued until retirement loomed, prompting us to sell the business.

As time passed, the stairs in our flat became a concern, leading us to downscale and settle permanently in Plettenberg Bay. Adjusting to a smaller space was challenging, especially with my beloved collection of antiques—I had to be ruthless, keeping only a few treasured pieces. Yet, this move proved to be the right decision. With only minor modifications, our Plettenberg Bay home became the perfect gathering place for family holidays.

After 13 wonderful years, my husband passed away, and I transitioned once again—this time into a larger, newly built house that needed no renovations, except for creating a garden from scratch. But as the years went by, my back began to protest. The combination of aging and being far from family led to the inevitable decision to sell and move to a retirement village where care was readily available.

And so, here I am, in my semi-detached cottage in the retirement village—ready to embrace the next chapter. Grateful for the beauty of my seaside location, and for being able to indulge in my favourite things – playing bridge and bowls, reading, gardening, going for walks on the beach and enjoying the company of dear friends and family as the opportunities present themselves.

Sheila (83) was a part owner of a florist Fleurettes in Grahamstown, ran her own bridal boutique Wedding Belles for 5 years in East London, was the owner of the Real Estate Agency Drostdy Estates in Grahamstown before retiring to Plettenberg Bay. She was a prolific „homemaker“ renovating and transforming a total of 12 private properties over the past 60 years as well as 4 rented business premises.

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